*I go through phases. Some days/weeks I'm all about my veggie garden, daydreaming about our move up to Homegrown farm. Sometimes I need to focus on our family and building a strong connection or working on current issues we may be facing. Other times I focus on myself a little more, working on personal issues I want to overcome, or simply re-filling my cup and nurturing myself. Then I find myself going on my cooking runs where I'll try a heap of new recipes and be all about food. This is usually followed by a decluttering and home organisation phase. Who know's what will be next? Haha.
It's so funny how our own thoughts can be our own worst enemy. We make most of the issues and drama up in our own heads and then let it control us. In reality we actually get to design our lives in all of our choices and baby steps forward. I don't want to "should" all over myself by looking at the lives of those around me who have found a way to make life work for them. That is their story and it won't work if I try and copy it. I'm unique so my life will be as well. It won't look like any other.